Send her a friendly DM to let her know you’ve noticed her. [2] X Expert Source John KeeganDating Coach Expert Interview. 5 November 2019. Go for an obvious flirt like, “I see you’ve been liking my pics lately. Care to comment?,” or a more mellow, “Hey! Saw you liked my post and want to get to know you better. ”
“The hours at the gym are really paying off🔥” “Wish I was there with you!” “Need another friend to tag along?😏” Do more than like her comments on her posts by sending a thoughtful or flirty reply back! This will let her know she’s also on your radar.
Send her a message and ask her if she thought the photo was hot or tell her the story behind it. Scroll through her page to see what she’s all about.
😉: She’s feeling flirty, but wants to make sure you feel the same. 👀: She’s feeling bold and ready to put herself out there to say you look good. 😏: She’s feeling mischievous, and dare we say, a little sexy. 😜: She’s feeling playful and is giving you a sexy wink.
“You look good in all your pictures. What’s your secret?” “IDK if you’ve noticed, but I’m definitely crushing on you😜” “I just want to say that I think you’re great!”
Check to see who’s seen your story after you’ve posted on it. You can do this by tapping on your profile image and clicking the “seen by” icon in the bottom left corner. If she’s at the top of the list, she may be waiting eagerly for you to post.
“OK, but that looks delicious! Maybe you should make me some😏” “Your dog is adorable! How old is he?” “You have the best movie suggestions. Any recommendations?” Reply back with something just as sexy, or take her comment and turn it into a date suggestion. Don’t be afraid to be bold!
Flirt back with her if she sends you a spicy reel. Reply with a sweet message saying you think the same about her. Let her know what your signs are so you can know if you’re compatible.
Check to see if she’s online by pretending to DM her. If there’s a green dot next to her username/profile picture, her online status is on. [6] X Research source
If she doesn’t respond right away, don’t panic. She may be busy or might even have her Instagram notifications turned off.
Instagram has a word limit of 2,200 characters, so she’s putting in even extra work if she’s having to private message you multiple messages.
Let her know if you’re not comfortable exchanging numbers. Do her a solid and delete her message with her number if you want to keep things on Instagram for now.
