Keep your conversations authentic. He’ll be able to tell if you’re pretending to have an opinion or trying to be somebody else to impress him. Great conversation topics could be anything in the local or international news, a new breakthrough or project at work, or telling an amusing story.
Keep your compliments genuine and don’t lay it on too thick. If he sniffs a hint of fake, he’ll be turned off and lose some trust in you.
Try intriguing your Virgo man by appealing to his intellect or a fetish you know he has. This will tempt him to approach you even more. Approach him first or strike up a friendly conversation to break the ice. Make it really clear you’re into him with eye contact, laughter, and welcoming body language. If your Virgo man isn’t getting the hint, make the first move with a seductive touch or by asking him out. A Virgo guy will appreciate a straightforward approach.
A big turn on for a Virgo man is a partner who doesn’t need constant validation. Be careful not to overdo it or he might see it as attention-seeking.
Showering together is the best (and most fun!) way to satisfy Virgo’s need for everyone to be clean before sex. After you get squeaky clean, put on a crisp, well-fitting outfit and a light makeup look to appeal to his love of a classic, natural beauty.
Talk about work, volunteering, your family, or other wholesome things in your life to mesmerize him. The less he suspects your kinky preferences, the more pleasantly surprised he’ll be later. A Virgo man falls for the “lady in the streets, freak in the sheets” type. A proper partner with a secret kinky side is a big turn on for him. Virgo men are more likely to be freakier right away if they view you as a fling instead of a potential long term partner.
Be candid with your thoughts and try not to hide things from him. He’s more likely to embrace vulnerability if he sees you embrace it too. Express your authentic thoughts and feelings. A Virgo guy can usually tell if you’re withholding or fudging the truth.
Keep the communication going during sex. Moan or tell him you like what he’s doing—the reassurance will ease his perfectionist tendencies and help him loosen up. Virgo men love to pitch in to help. Playfully tell him you need him to do these things to you and that no one else can get the job done.
Tantalize his sense of touch too with a suggestive massage and fresh, soft sheets on the bed. Virgo men are very visually stimulated, especially during sex. Keep some mood lighting on in the bedroom so he can see you.
A Virgo man has an insane eye for detail. Anything out of order can distract him during sex, so double and triple check that your room is immaculate!
Guide him with your body language and words while he explores your body. He’s turned on by direction and knowing that he’s doing the right things. Virgo men like to please—just make sure to reciprocate and make him feel appreciated.
You don’t always have to finish first, but it’s helpful for increasing his attraction to you in the early stages of your relationship.
Try new things outside of the bedroom too. This will make his mental connection to you stronger, which will definitely make your sex together better.
