Show him that you love having fun. Challenge him to a round of pool, don’t be afraid to do some karaoke, and invite him for a dance. Try to keep conversation centered around the positives. Talk about fun things you’ve done lately, what you like about work, and avoid complaining.
“I love your shirt! It really brings out the green in your eyes. ” “I swear, there’s something about your smile! I can’t stop staring. " “You probably get this all the time, but you have amazing arms. "
“I try to commit at least one weekend every winter to a snowboarding trip. I just feel like myself out there, you know?” “I almost became a writer instead. Can you believe that? Now I can’t imagine myself doing anything else. I just love working with kids. " “I’ve been working at the Humane Society since I was in high school. There’s no better feeling than watching an animal get adopted!”
Try finding reasons to smile in conversation. Pay attention to when he says something interesting or sweet. This is the perfect time to give a soft grin. Even if you haven’t made it to the conversation stage yet, this hack can still help. Make sure you’re all smiles, even from across the room. Your smile is a powerful tool. Don’t be afraid to use it!
Use eye contact in a crowded bar to signal that you’re interested. Or, if you’re already in conversation, make sure to hold deep, lingering eye contact while you chat. Either way, this should definitely help your chances!
A tight, bodycon dress A simple white tee, jeans, and baseball cap Backless or sleeveless looks Anything red, like a cocktail dress with black heels Anything that looks amazing on your figure
A fresh face with zero makeup Smokey eyes A light blush look A bright red lip Sultry cat eyeliner
“Wow, that’s really interesting. Tell me more about that. ” “That’s amazing! That must’ve been really difficult to accomplish. ” “That’s hilarious. It sounds like you guys live pretty crazy lives!”
Read your favorite book while waiting for a pal at the bar. Now, that cute guy across the room can ask you what you’re reading. When out for a walk, wear your “gone fishing” hat. This way, a guy passing by can open with something like, “I love that! Are you an angler?” By singing along to the jukebox at a bar, you’re expressing an interest in the music. Now he’s free to walk up and say, “You like Lucy Dacus? Me too!”
