If you’re a guy, try wearing a henley shirt, a nice button-up, or a sweater. If you’re a girl, put on a fitted pair of jeans, an off-the-shoulder blouse, a little black dress, a bodycon dress.
“I remember you saying you liked Kit Kats, so I got you the biggest one I could find!” “I stopped and got us some coffee. Venti cold brew with almond milk, just how you like it!”
“Hi hi! I’ve missed you!” “Ugh, it’s so good to finally see you again!” “Hey you! I’ve been looking forward to this all day!”
Be sure to brush your teeth before your date to make your smile shine bright and get rid of bad breath.
Try holding eye contact for a few seconds and then smiling at your date. That’s bound to make them feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
If your date pulls away and doesn’t want to be touched, respect their personal space and try flirting in a different way. They might just need a little more time to warm up to you.
“You look absolutely stunning in that top!” “Wow, you rocked that karaoke song! Why didn’t you tell me you had the voice of an angel?!” “You’re so easy to talk to, I feel like I could open up about anything with you. ”
“What is something you’re hoping to achieve in the next 10 years?” “How do you get along with your family?” “What’s the most important thing in a relationship for you?”
When you’re on your date, put your phone away so you don’t get the urge to check it.
“That’s so neat you grew up in a small town. What was your favorite thing to do there?” “It sounds like you’re really close with your family. How often do you get to see them?” “Skiing is one of my favorite hobbies too! What’s the best slope you’ve ever been on?”
Be careful not to laugh at everything they say, or your date might think that you don’t take them seriously.
“Gutter ball? I thought you said that you were good at bowling!” “If you’re a musician, you won’t have any problem singing me a love song, right?” “Was that your way of hitting on me? Because it was super cute. ” If your date does get offended, apologize quickly and try to move on to a new subject.
“My friends tell me I’m the best chef! We should find something to make for dinner and cook it together sometime!” “I’m so glad we both love going to the farmer’s market! Wouldn’t it be fun if we went together and sampled all of the food?” “If you think you’re so good at basketball, you should try taking me on 1-on-1 sometime soon!”
If your date rejects the kiss, respect their space. Maybe they don’t like PDA or they may not be ready for that much physical contact yet. Even though you can usually tell from your date’s body language, it can be really courteous to ask for their consent before kissing. You could say, “I’ve had such an incredible time tonight. Would you mind if I kissed you?”
